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  • 1.  Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-05-2021 10:19 AM
    Typically (pre-covid) we host a Coping with the Holidays event in early November where we invite all of our bereaved families and community members to gather and go through activities, readings, and poems in preparation for the holidays. Last year due to covid we mailed out items and an activity for them to complete at home (remembrance ornament). This year we are trying to figure out what to do, our only dilemma with utilizing zoom is that we are a very small, rural community where internet access is not a given. We've attempted zoom grief meetings before with no participation. Looking for any thoughts or ideas you all may have or are planning!

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    Allison Urda, BSW
    Bereavement Coordinator
    VCU Health CMH
    Community Hospice
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  • 2.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-06-2021 10:16 AM
    We are planning on recording a video that they will be able to access on YouTube.  It will be a conversation with a counselor that we will prerecord and send out the link with some "tips".  We all have had to get creative!  Hope all goes well for you.

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    Gretchen Seidler Gibbs, Bereavement Coordinator
    VNA of NWI
    Valparaiso, IN 46383
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  • 3.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-06-2021 12:41 PM

    Lovely to hear what folks are offering for the holidays! 

     

    Please feel free to join us today for our bereavement community chat about the holidays! We look forward to learning even more about what different bereavement program approaches are to providing support at this time.

     

    Our program offers a virtual workshop with both education and activities interactively, cameras on, but not recorded.

     

    That is an interesting idea to hear from some – especially in how it allows more people to gain support at alternate times!

     

     

    Joelle Osterhaus, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, ACHP-SW (she/her)
    KPNW Hospice & Palliative Care Psychosocial Services Manager

    "Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of overcoming it." - Helen Keller

    Kaiser Permanente Northwest
    Continuing Care Services 2701 NW Vaughn St., Ste. 140, Portland, OR 97210-5344

    Cell Phone: (503) 312-0819
    Main Office: (503) 499-5200

    Fax: (503) 499-5535

    Bereavement Program Sharepoint Site: https://sp-cloud.kp.org/sites/teams-nwreg-NWAmbulatoryCare/CCS/Hospice/SitePages/BS.aspx

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  • 4.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-06-2021 01:01 PM
    Thanks for that reminder about the chat - could you resend the details for that - I don't seem to have info on it!

    I want to see if I might be able to attend …


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    Nancy Arnold CDP
    Bereavement Manager
    Supportive Care Services
    Visiting Nurse Association
    Southcoast Health | 200 Mill Road | Fairhaven, MA. 02719
    508-973-3227 / cell: 774-319-3007
    ArnoldN@southcoast.org
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  • 5.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-06-2021 10:51 AM
    Hi all,

    Last year we recorded a zoom group where I did a "share screen" presentation of our Grieving During the Holidays workshop and included Q & A from those who attended.  We got permission from those who attended to be able to share that recording to anyone who asked.

    Then, we made the recording available to anyone who asked - and it ended up resulting in A LOT of requests.  We were grateful to make it available to that many people.

    We are doing the same thing this year.

    Let me piggy-back a question I have about the holiday season this year - 

    Last year the message from CDC and Health Department, etc. about the holidays was, please don't gather in person, be creative about ways to "get together" instead of large gatherings.

    Does anyone know what the message is for holiday celebrations this year?

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    Nancy Arnold CDP
    Bereavement Manager
    Supportive Care Services
    Visiting Nurse Association
    Southcoast Health | 200 Mill Road | Fairhaven, MA. 02719
    508-973-3227 / cell: 774-319-3007
    ArnoldN@southcoast.org
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  • 6.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-06-2021 12:38 PM

    Good question Nancy!  On the CDC website it appears guidance on the holidays and gatherings for this year were updated on Aug 15, 2021 and I do not see additional updates since then. 

     

    Here is what I found https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/your-health/gatherings.html

     

    Small and Large Gatherings

    Small and Large Gatherings

    Updated Aug. 15, 2021

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    Covid Gatherings Update for Fall

    Small gatherings are informal in nature and may occur with family and friends you regularly socialize with, often at someone's residence. They typically do not involve long distance travel. Small gathering guidance might be more appropriate for social gatherings that are more intimate with close friends and family, such as small holiday parties, family dinners, and special celebrations.

    Large gatherings bring together many people from multiple households in a private or public space. Large gatherings are often planned events with a large number of guests and invitations. They sometimes involve lodging, event staff, security, tickets, and long-distance travel. Large events might be events such as conferences, trade shows, sporting events, festivals, concerts, or large weddings and parties.

    Steps Everyone Can Take to Make Gatherings Safer

    Covid Gatherings Update for Fall

    If you are attending a gathering, think about the steps you need to take to protect yourself and your loved ones from COVID-19.

    Know how to protect your family if you have members who are vaccinated and unvaccinated.

    Safer Gatherings

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    Gathering virtually or with the people you live with is the safest choice.

    • Have a virtual gathering, like a virtual party, concert or sporting event with friends and family.
    • If you do gather with people who don't live with you, gatherings and activities held outdoors are safer than indoor gatherings.
    • Avoid crowded, poorly ventilated spaces.
    • Know what to do if your family has members or are vaccinated and unvaccinated.

     

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    Know public safety measures in place at the venue.

    • Check with the organizer or event venue for updated information about any COVID-19 safety guidelines.
    • Choose events that take place outside with enough space for attendees to stay at least 6 feet apart.

    What to do if You Become Sick after Attending a Gathering

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    • Attending a large gathering or event increases your chance of being in close contact with people outside your household and being exposed to COVID-19. If you had close contact with people you don't live with:
    • Know when to get tested for COVID-19You can visit your state or health department's website to look for the latest local information on testing.
    • Know when to quarantine.
      • If you are unvaccinated
        • Stay home for 14 days after your last contact with a person who has COVID-19.
        • Watch for fever (100.4°F), cough, shortness of breath, or other symptoms of COVID-19.
        • If possible, stay away from others, especially people who are at higher risk for getting very sick from COVID-19.
    • If you are fully vaccinated
      • Get tested 3-5 days after the exposure, even if you don't have any symptoms.
      • Wear a mask indoors in public for 14 days following the exposure or until your test result is negative.

     

     

     

    Joelle Osterhaus, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, ACHP-SW (she/her)
    KPNW Hospice & Palliative Care Psychosocial Services Manager

    "Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of overcoming it." - Helen Keller

    Kaiser Permanente Northwest
    Continuing Care Services 2701 NW Vaughn St., Ste. 140, Portland, OR 97210-5344

    Cell Phone: (503) 312-0819
    Main Office: (503) 499-5200

    Fax: (503) 499-5535

    Bereavement Program Sharepoint Site: https://sp-cloud.kp.org/sites/teams-nwreg-NWAmbulatoryCare/CCS/Hospice/SitePages/BS.aspx

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  • 7.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-27-2021 05:01 AM

    Hi Allison, I am the Community Manager at Empathy, a start-up helping families navigate both the practical and the emotional aspects of loss.

    We are planning a Holiday Calendar to share across our Social media with various activities, including journaling activities, weekly affirmations, grief meditations, Instagram lives with people talking about how they navigated grief and used it to help others and a Holiday virtual party among other things. I would be more than happy to share this resource with you once we have it ready. It is a downloadable PDF and most activities will take place on our Social Media and on our Facebook Group.




  • 8.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-27-2021 10:42 AM
    Laura,
    Could you please provide the link for your FaceBook page?  When I typed in Empathy, there were a few choices.
    Thanks,

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    Gretchen Seidler Gibbs, Bereavement Coordinator
    VNA of NWI
    Valparaiso, IN 46383
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  • 9.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-28-2021 09:41 AM
    Hi Gretchen!

    Thank you so much for your interest and your reply. I am glad to send along our FB page as well as our FB group community

    Let me know if you would like any additional information.

    Warmly,

    Laura


  • 10.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-28-2021 10:04 AM
    I would love to have a copy! Thank you,


  • 11.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-28-2021 12:04 PM
    This sounds like an amazing resource! 

    Thank you for offering to share it once it is ready.

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    Laura Lirette M.Ed, MSW, CSWA
    Bereavement Coordinator
    Mt Hood Hospice
    PO Box 1269
    Sandy, OR 97055
    Main number: 503-668-5545
    Fax: 503-668-7951
    llirette@mthoodhospice.org
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  • 12.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 10-28-2021 12:17 PM
    Hi yes please post the link for your resource when it is ready. Thank you


  • 13.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 11-02-2021 08:56 AM
    Hello everyone!
    It's Laura, the Community Manager here at Empathy. As promised, I am sharing the link to our Holiday Calendar: https://www.empathy.com/holiday-calendar. You can download a pdf version from this link. 

    A quick blurb about the calendar you all can share with families and/or on your social media, should you wish to do so:

    The holiday season is often associated with the expectation of traditions and togetherness, which can feel particularly difficult after the loss of a loved one. Because we know how hard the holidays can be, especially for those who are grieving, we created a grief community support calendar with resources and activities to help carry you through this difficult season.

    You can download the free calendar here, and remember-no matter how challenging the holidays may be, you're not alone.  https://www.empathy.com/holiday-calendar #HolidaysWithEmpathy

    Thank you all for amplifying this initiative, let's support as many bereaved families as we can this holiday season ❤️
    Warmly,
    Laura



  • 14.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 11-02-2021 10:11 AM
    Thank you for sharing this!

    Veronica M. Ibarra, MS, FT, BCC

    Bereavement Counselor

    Presbyterian Home Health, Hospice, and Palliative Care

    Albuquerque, NM

    Bereavement Services: 505-559-7055

    Cell: 505-377-1601

    Hospice Main: 505-559-1000


    "The holiest of holidays are those kept by ourselves in silence and apart:  

    The secret anniversaries of the heart"  -Henry Wadsworth Longfellow 

     






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  • 15.  RE: Holiday Activities

    Posted 11-03-2021 12:47 PM
    Thank you. This is very inspiring!

    Diana

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    Diana Moore
    Hospice Bereavement Coordinator
    Central Vermont Home Health & Hospice
    Barre, Vermont
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