Bereavement Professional

  • 1.  Grief Support Groups

    Posted 06-11-2021 06:25 PM
    For organizations hosting grief support groups -- do you have a structured group that has an end date - 5 weeks, 6 weeks, for example...
    or do you facilitate ongoing groups? if so, are there time or duration limits - for example, 13 months after the death? 2 years after the death?

    Thank you,

    Veronica M. Ibarra, MS, FT, BCC

    Bereavement Counselor

    Presbyterian Home Health, Hospice, and Palliative Care

    Albuquerque, NM

    Bereavement Services: 505-559-7055

    Cell: 505-377-1601

    Hospice Main: 505-559-1000


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  • 2.  RE: Grief Support Groups

    Posted 06-14-2021 10:05 AM
    We have structured 6 week groups. We use the material published by Resources for Grief. We offer ongoing once a month group for those that completed the 6 week session. My once a month group has been appreciated by the members during the pandemic. It has been virtual. Some of them live 50 miles apart. As an organization we are discussing what the ongoing group will look like in the future, in person or virtual.

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    Kathy Tweten, LSW,CHP-SW
    Bereavement Coordinator
    Carris Health-Rice Hospice
    Willmar, MN
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  • 3.  RE: Grief Support Groups

    Posted 06-14-2021 11:39 AM
    I've always said that since grief changes over time, the client's needs also change. Plus no one group will work for everyone. So we offer both in person and virtual, both monthly loss specific groups as well as closed series - some are 3 weeks in length, some 4, some 6. That way people can pick and choose what fits best for them at different points along the way of their grief journey. With every group we explain our services are for people in the 'first year or two' after the death, so they know from the outset there is an end point, it's not ongoing. From time to time when we see people come less for reasons that are grief related and more for the social component, we take them aside and talk with them about how that has changed over time and suggest they consider transitioning from the monthly drop in group to our 6 week Growing through Grief series that is for people 9 or more months out from the loss. Plus we suggest instead the more social options our bereavement volunteers coordinate - Men's Breakfast, Ladies Lunch and Dinner Out. These of course had to stop during the pandemic and in their place this summer many are meeting at a local park to visit and walk, but we are hoping to get back on track with them by year's end.

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    Patti Anewalt, Director
    Pathways Center for Grief & Loss
    Hospice & Community Care
    Mount Joy, PA
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  • 4.  RE: Grief Support Groups

    Posted 06-14-2021 12:11 PM

    Hi Veronica-

     

    I run both on-going social hours (informal conversation groups) and 6 week structured psycho-educational groups. I offer both types of groups for general grief support, support specific to those who had complicated relationships with the deceased, and for caregivers.

     

    I don't have a time limitation on length of time from death. I explain to participants when they call to register that they know best what their needs are. I've had people join within a few weeks of a death and others who are several years out. Thus far feedback has been positive and people appreciate that I trust them to make a decision about if the group feels helpful to them or not.

     

    It's been lovely having a wide range of time since death in the group as those who have had more time to be with their grief can often serve as mentors to those whose death is more recent.

     

    If you want more information about either of the formats, feel free to email me.

     

    Laura Lirette M.Ed, MSW, CSWA

    Bereavement Coordinator

    Mt Hood Hospice

    PO Box 1269

    Sandy, OR 97055

    Main number: 503-668-5545

    Fax: 503-668-7951

    llirette@mthoodhospice.org

     






  • 5.  RE: Grief Support Groups

    Posted 06-15-2021 01:07 PM

    Hello!

     

    We have an 8 week, closed, curriculum based support group that is co-facilitated with two bereavement staff.

     

    We also have multiple, open drop-in groups that meet approx. twice a month and there is no limit to how long someone can attend. It is not uncommon that someone might begin group work many months into their death, and their being no 'timeline' for grief, we offer the flexibility of the bereaved to self-determine the start/end of their participation. However, I will add that we have some clear and helpful norms, rituals and group guidelines which help create safe space and shared expectations. Thus no attendee keeps coming indefinitely.

     

    When there are concerns in either closed or open group around someone's appropriateness of fit, the facilitator attends to that and bridges the individual to other resources or therapeutic connections, as needed, and their participation in group may/is likely to sundown.

     

    Of note, our program appreciates consistent weekly meetings for bereavement staff and management to engage in clinical consultation with one another to process group dynamics and issues together. There are so many unique circumstances with each individual who attends our groups and we definitely have found this kind of processing together very helpful.

     

     

    Joelle Osterhaus, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, ACHP-SW (she/her)
    KPNW Hospice & Palliative Care Psychosocial Services Manager

     

    "Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of overcoming it." - Hellen Keller

     

    Kaiser Permanente Northwest
    Continuing Care Services 2701 NW Vaughn St., Ste. 140, Portland, OR 97210-5344

    Cell Phone: (503) 312-0819
    Main Office: (503) 499-5200

    Fax: (503) 499-5535

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  • 6.  RE: Grief Support Groups

    Posted 06-16-2021 09:24 AM
    Very similar to everyone else, we also offer both closed and open ended groups to meet the unique needs of our bereaved. We carefully screen each person registering to determine their appropriateness for the group.

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    Karen Monts
    Director, Grief Support Services & Practice Manager, Counseling Services
    Northstar Care Community
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