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  • 1.  Grief groups

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    Posted 02-10-2016 03:25 PM
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    We have a new policy at our hospice of having grief groups every Tuesday for 4 sessions.  This is new to me as I have been running 8 session groups every other Tuesday for 4 months.  Has anyone out there had success with 4 weekly sessions?  If so, could you give me some ideas as how to format the groups?  I am also wondering how things go without screening.  Part of the new policy is the date/time/place are published both in the hospice mailings as well as on hospital calandars.  Has this worked for anyone?  Any reponse will be greatly appreciated.  Thanks in advance.



  • 2.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-11-2016 09:44 AM

    We have never done 4 week sessions - always 6 weeks, with the option of extending a week if the facilitator feels it is necessary.  I guess I would ask the rationale?  What would be the agenda for the 4 weeks?  Would you have the opportunity to even touch on all the steps to facilitate natural grieving process?  Remember, the first session is the introduction and the last is the closure with their future plan of working thru their grief beyond the group.  That gives you essentially 2 sessions to deal with the grief process.  Lastly, it always is puzzling to me why organizations develop practices that only serve the needs of the organization or their staff rather than the people we are suppose to serve.

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    Susan Bruno
    Suncoast Hospice



  • 3.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-11-2016 11:25 AM

    We offer groups/workshops of varying lengths. There are multiple factors we take into consideration as we develop programs for the upcoming year.  

    We survey the community to see what other programs offer.  We look at last years' attendance and what was well attended.  We are also blessed to have a number of facilitators and at times, they will want to offer something new.

    Our program advertises groups and workshops in the newsletter and our community education folks take flyers/information to LTCFs, doctor offices, community partners, ect. 

    Our one  grief support group that is not loss specific and is structured for 6 weeks had a loss of attendance steadily over a two year period.  We decided to change it to a 4 week structure and offer it twice a year.  Since this change, attendance has increased and remains good for both cycles.  

    The structure is:  Introductions/Story of death; grief 101 and the process of grief; recognizing where you are in the grief with beginning coping tools and sharing of the loved one to solidify continuing bonds work;  and coping continued/closure with next steps for the last group. 

    There are several programs in the country that use a four week structure based on Worden's 4 tasks for a basis of the group process.

    By far, our loss specific groups/workshops are the best attended with the highest ratings, regardless of the number of sessions.  For instance, Grief 101 a one night, 2 hour workshop is always well attended and helps the bereaved to know what else the program offers for continued support. Participants evaluate this workshop as helpful and supportive. 


    Best of Luck to You!




     
    Brenda Kenyon, LCSW
    Grief Specialist
    (317) 338-4057
    St.Vincent Home Health
    and Hospice







  • 4.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-11-2016 12:13 PM

    I also run 8 week groups as well as drop in groups and single events.  I think 4 weeks for a closed group could be tough. I know some programs offer 6 weeks but tough to have a beginning, middle and end in 4 weeks!  Maybe you can send out a post evaluation after this 4 week style group to determine how well it was received and experienced by the bereaved.  Most bereaved attending the 8 week programs I offer will say the length of the program was adequate with a few each time wishing it was a bit longer.  Maybe understanding the reasoning behind the change would be helpful?

    If the programs are advertised maybe it can include that registration is required as attendance limited which ensures a call to you for a phone screening.  That is what I do and it usually works well.  I know other programs do a face to face meeting for such a screening but I have not found that necessary.

    Good luck!

     

    Carmela S. McDowell MSW, LSW

    Abington Health

    Hospice Bereavement Coordinator

    225 Newtown Road

    Warminster, PA 18974

    215.441.6841

    cmcdowell@abingtonhealth.org

     

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  • 5.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-12-2016 03:20 PM

    Hello All,

     

    We have been facilitating 6-8 week grief groups using the Alan Wolfelt book "Ten Essential Touchstones For Understanding Your Grief" and we have found that it is tough to have a introductory session and closing session and get through the material in anything less than 6 weeks and even then 8 weeks is the preferred option we have found.  We are very intentional about ensuring our group members are committed to the 6-8 weeks and once they are done have stated it has been one of the most helpful things they have done.  Our groups are offered 3-4 times a year and we advertise them quarterly in our grief mailings.  When we have about 8-12 people interested we will form one knowing that the day/time will not work for all of them so we end up having about 5-7 people in a group.  The others are put on a callback list for the next group and we vary the time.  If anyone would like our agenda in using the Wolfelt book please email me.  It has been very successful for us and has very good material to serve as a base for the discussion.  Blessings to you all, Nathan Schutt

     

    Nathan Schutt | Client Services Manager
    Cedar Valley Hospice | PO Box 2880 | Waterloo, IA  50704
    ph 319-272-2002 | fax 319-272-2071
    cvhospice.org

     

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  • 6.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-15-2016 09:38 AM

    At Hospice of Chattanooga we have what we call a "Condolence Packet". This packet contains a booklet called Life  Beyond Loss  Barbara Karnes), a sma;; printed card sharing what Bereavement services are available by our agency, a copy of the Support Groups we sponsor, and a card signed by as many members of the IDT as possible. We also note the "Condolence packet' on the Bereavement POC. Hope this helps.

     

    Mary Kay Hiatt M.Ed, LMSW

    Director of Social Services

    4411 Oakwood Drive

    Chattanooga, TN 37416

    Marykay_Hiatt@hospiceofchattanooga.org

    423-805-7047

    423-718-7414

     




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  • 7.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-17-2016 11:56 AM

    Nathan,

    I would like your agenda in using the Wolfelt book, also.  Thank you.

    Mary Edith Cicola

    mcicola@vnaindiana.org

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    Mary Cicola, BS
    Volunteer Coordinator
    VNA of Indiana County Family Hospice



  • 8.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-17-2016 09:34 PM

    Yes please Nathan, add me in to the group who would like a copy of the Agenda for the Wolfelt book Thank you.

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    Virginia Bishop
    Chaplain
    Central Mass Hospice Auburn, Massachusetts



  • 9.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-15-2016 10:52 AM

    Hi Nathan,  I would like to request your agenda using the Wolfelt book for grief support groups.  You can email me at: lesleec@marytinc.com

    Thank you, Leslee Curtis, Hospice Social Worker for Mary T. Hospice.

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    Leslee Curtis
    Hospice Operations Manager, Hospice Social Worker, Volunteer Coordinator
    Mary T. Hospice



  • 10.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-16-2016 08:29 AM

    Hi, Nathan.

    Thanks so much for sharing.  I would love to have a copy of the agenda for the sessions using the Wolfelt book as well.

    Peace,

    Barb

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    Barbara Kralik
    Amedisys Hospice
    Chaplain/Bereavement Coordinator
    barbara.kralik@amedisys.com



  • 11.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-16-2016 02:15 PM

    Hi Nathan, I would really appreciate receiving your agenda for using the Wolfelt book also. My e-mail address is: pat.neville@gvnahealthcare.org Thanks so much, Pat Neville

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    Pat Neville
    Coordinator of Spiritual Care and Bereavement
    GVNAHealthcare



  • 12.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-17-2016 08:23 AM

    Hello Nathan!   I would really appreciate receiving the agenda from the Wolfelt book as well.   Thank you.  

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    Deborah Hall
    Legacy-Hospice



  • 13.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-15-2016 12:33 PM
    Nathan,

    I would very much appreciate receiving your agenda for your sessions using the Wolfelt book. Thanks so much for sharing!

    Peace,
    Barb




  • 14.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-16-2016 02:07 PM

    Dear Nathan,

     

    I also would very much like to have your agenda for using the Wolfelt book.

     

    Thanks so much,

     

    Pat Neville

    BRV and SP Coordinator

    GVNA Hospice

     




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  • 15.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-15-2016 01:22 PM

    We run different groups and workshops of varying lengths and group member composition. We believe strongly in the importance of pre-group screening not only to ensure that the potential group member is a good candidate for the group, but also that the group is the right fit for each potential group member. For instance, we would not register someone for a partner/spouse loss group if the partner or spouse died from suicide or homicide. We offer specialized groups for those types of losses. If someone is actively alcoholic or struggling with chemical addiction, we would assist that person in addressing those concerns first before attempting to integrate them into one of our groups.

    Sometimes we speak with people who clearly are having a complicated grief response and determine that a grief support group would be contraindicated. In those cases we would make a referral to a therapist who is skilled in the treatment of complicated grief. We often make referrals for community counseling when there are unmanaged mental health issues. The trick is to do the screening in a way that engages the caller in the process of finding the best resource for his or her particular need. When done thoughtfully, people feel their needs have been well-served even though we may have mutually determined that attending a support group may not be the treatment of choice.

    I can think of two other areas of consideration from an organizational perspective. First, is the safety of the group leader(s) and other group members. Without any attempt to screen potential group members the agency has no idea who may attend. Granted, a phone call may not mitigate all risk but without any type of screening process the agency opens itself up to greater liability. The second consideration is that well-run bereavement groups can serve as a great marketing tool for the hospice. The success of support groups relies largely on the goodness-of-fit among group members. Adequate screening enhances the likelihood of that goodness-of-fit.  A poorly run group stands to taint the reputation of the hospice in the community and may cause more harm than good to group members.

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    Kathleen McAleer, LICSW, ACHP-SW
    Bereavement Coordinator
    Cranberry Hospice & Palliative Care
    36 Cordage Park Circle
    Suite 326
    Plymouth, MA 02360
    508-746-0215
    kmcaleer@jordanhospital.org
    Cranberry HospiceBereavement CoordinatorLICSW, ACHP-SWPlymouthPlymouthPlymouthMA



  • 16.  RE: Grief groups

    Posted 02-17-2016 02:41 PM

    Hi Nathan,

    I would also love a copy of your materials. Could you please e-mail me at anne.alesch@unitypoint.org?

    Thanks for connecting!

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    Anne Alesch, MDiv
    Bereavement Coordinator
    UnityPoint at Home Corporate Office