Bereavement Professional

  • 1.  Winter and Holiday Grief

    Posted 11-18-2019 05:43 PM

    Hello All,

     

    It is quite common for bereavement programs throughout the country to offer special workshops, groups, or memorial events at this time of year.  It is both darker with shorter days, longer nights, colder weather, and many family traditions centered around holidays coinciding with this time as well. Frequently bereaved report feeling surges of grief, feelings of depression, and identify stress and challenges for a multitude of reasons related to family traditions and holidays.  It is often a regular topic on our discussion board that can be so very rich as we all learn and grow as a community of professionals hoping to continue to best serve the bereaved in our communities. 

     

    Thus the Bereavement Professional Community Committee wanted to post for both old and new bereavement professionals to contribute their thoughts on any of the below:

     

    • What are some interventions you have offered individual bereaved clients in counseling during this time of year?
    • Any special interventions for children and teens over the winter or holidays? Whether individual, within small families, or in support groups or schools?
    • What are some offerings or types of programs you have done and are opting to not continue, and why?
    • What are things your hospice has done and continues to do because of it's positive reception and impact?
    • Anyone who does a memorial event this time of year, or those who elect not to and why that works/does not work for your community?
    • Thoughts on creative things you are considering trying this year or in the future that touches on the theme of winter or holidays?

     

    Thank you in advance for any who contribute, and feel free to chime in if you and your hospice or palliative care program have a specific related question you'd like to attach to this thread!

     

    Best thoughts to all of you whom are doing this work of service and support to those whom are grieving – thank you!

     

    Joelle Osterhaus, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, ACHP-SW (she/her)
    Hospice & Palliative Care Psychosocial Services Manager

    Kaiser Permanente Northwest
    Continuing Care Services
    2701 NW Vaughn St., Ste. 140
    Portland, OR 97210-5344

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    Joelle Osterhaus, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, ACHP-SW (she/her)
    Hospice & Palliative Care Psychosocial Services Manager

    Kaiser Permanente Northwest
    Continuing Care Services
    2701 NW Vaughn St., Ste. 140
    Portland, OR 97210-5344

    Cell Phone: (503) 312-0819
    Main Office: (503) 499-5200

    Fax: (503) 499-5535

    CCS Social Work Sharepoint Site (internal use): https://sp-cloud.kp.org/sites/NWCCSSocialWork/Shared%20Documents/Forms/AllItems.aspx

    CCS Bereavement Program Sharepoint Site (internal use): https://sites.sp.kp.org/teams/nwreg/NWAmbulatoryCare/CCS/Hospice/SitePages/BS.aspx

    CCS Dept Sharepoint Site (internal use): https://sites.sp.kp.org/teams/nwreg/NWAmbulatoryCare/CCS/SitePages/Home.aspx

     

    Hospice Volunteer Website: : https://www.kpnwvolunteer.org/hospice

    kp.org/thrive

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  • 2.  RE: Winter and Holiday Grief

    Posted 11-19-2019 11:22 AM
    I think offering more programs for grievers during the holiday season is extremely important. We offer a few choices that are special this time of year.

    First, we put on a Grief and the Holidays Seminar at the beginning of November which offers participants to learn a little bit about holiday grief and then they create a Holiday Plan to communicate to family or whoever they spend the holidays with. This seminar is a good capstone for many of our support group participants who already have a strong foundational understanding of the grief process.

    Second, we offer our Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony which is for an evening of quiet reflection, music, and refreshments.

    We also have our support groups, one specific for suicide grief, and one on one grief support.

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    Kaylee Kron, LMSW GC-C
    Bereavement Coordinator
    Hospice of North Idaho
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  • 3.  RE: Winter and Holiday Grief

    Posted 11-20-2019 09:46 AM
    We offer a "Living with Loss During the Holidays" presentation/dinner, a breathing/relaxation workshop, and we also host a crafting workshop where participants can make ornaments in honor of their loved ones. All three of these events are well attended and received! They offer both cognitive and physical ways to process the individual's loss, which means the various events often appeal to different demographics. I think it's important to offer these events and to have a variety of offerings that meet people's diverse needs.

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    Anne Alesch, MDiv.
    Bereavement Coordinator, Hospice
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  • 4.  RE: Winter and Holiday Grief

    Posted 11-22-2019 08:59 AM
    ​We offer a special program "Hope for the Holidays" in several communities. They are generally well attended. The benefit of the holiday programs is not only the specific information attendees receive regarding coping with the difficult holiday season, but it also appeals to those who can't attend an ongoing program and to families. We have had entire families register to attend. It provides that opportunity for families who may not be discussing the fact that individually each is struggling with the holiday season, to come and learn together. The programs are educative in nature, although we have offered memorial type programs during this season routinely also.

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    Karen Monts
    Director, Grief Support Services & Practice Manager, Counseling Services
    Northstar Care Community
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